okay so my man and i have been together 3 1/2 years. i’ve never came from penetration alone. with other partners, by myself, or with him. never. this is an insecurity of his which is understandable. i’d be insecure too if he never came from my vagina.

well tonight he asked if i would go without cumming for up to a year. no masturbation. no clit stimulation. no orgasm at all. to create more sensitivity and maybe spike an orgasm from penetration.

to me this is unfair. he says it’s the bigger picture. that sometimes we have to sacrifice things for what’s better. a year of no cumming for a lifetime of cumming from his penis. he said he’d do it for me but i told him i’d never ask that of him. i see what he’s saying but it’s also crazy to me. like yay you came now i’m gonna roll over and go to sleep. partners should both be pleased. he feels like he’s not fully pleased because he can’t fully please me. so i should sacrifice my pleasure? i don’t know, maybe i’m selfish.

also the me who has four brothers and was raised with double standards, hates that he’d get to cum and i won’t.🫣i truly feel like i’d have so much animosity and resentment over time.