How many of y’all stayed 1cm up until labor?

I’ve been 1cm since 36 weeks and I’m 39 now. I’ve had 2 membrane sweeps and neither of them helped with dilating 😩 just had lots of spotting. Anyone else have a similar experience? I feel like my body just isn’t going to dilate beyond this point and I will have to be induced! (My OB doesn’t want me going past 41 weeks bc of my baby’s size)