I hate to even make this kind of post but I’m at a loss as to what to even do anymore. Does anyone else struggle with their husbands to have good hygiene??

He was not like this at the beginning of us talking. He would shower ever morning, brush his teeth and everything but I have to beg for him to take a shower now. I buy him all the fancy soaps, all the beard oils and brushes to keep his stuff nice.. he has curly hair so I bought him hair stuff to take care of his hair. We’ve been together for almost 3 years.

But he refuses to shower most days, brush his teeth and tonight which has literally just broke the camels back is he literally went poo, took a 4 min shower and got out. He has an insane amount of pimples on his sides of his legs so I went to pop them and he has 💩 on his buttocks even though he supposedly wiped and took a shower on our FRESH sheets. He is stark naked with poo on his butt rubbing on the sheets..

I’ve brought up mental health to him, I’ve talked about how it’s really nice to be clean and sleep in a clean bed.. I’ve even gave him like bonuses to just shower (like giving him a bj after he gets out) and nothing. He says he isn’t depressed or anything and I’m sick and tired of this being one of the main topics I bring up.

I’m pregnant and as much as sex sounds amazing.. I don’t want his sweaty junk up in me anymore. What do I do.. I don’t want to be the a hole and I’ve been as sweet about it as I possibly can with his hygiene.

EDIT. I don’t know if I poorly worded this.. but the whole poo on the butt happened this evening. That’s a first and we definitely did NOT have sex tonight.