we recently just had sex for the first time and then again a few weeks later and since then he hasn’t really talked to me, we have seen each other socially but he hasn’t talked to me. we have been dating for over 4 months what do i do? did i do something wrong? the last thing we talked about was aftercare and he called it stupid and not a big deal so i asked him to take me home. we haven’t had a full conversation since. my heart hurts so bad and i don’t know what even happened.