Mother broke my heart

I always knew my mom held my brother higher than me. Maybe it was because I was adopted and she didn’t grow me or whatever. But I always knew that her and I would lose connection and it would most likely be due to my brother’s issues. He’s a 40yo man still relying on our parents. Last night my mother broke my heart. She blamed me for his familial issues. All because I’m closer to his ex than I ever was with him. She was more of a sister to me than he was. So when something happens or they’re talking shit about her, bet your ass imma tell her. And because of that, my mother told me that the shit that has been unfolding the last few weeks was because of me opening my mouth. I told her I never want to speak to her again if she truly believes that. She’ll go to the ends of the world to defend her narcissistic son rather than admit that he’s the problem and that SHE RAISED HIM LIKE THAT.

@Hannah I’m obviously not gonna put all the detail on here for everyone bc I’m not about to air their shit out on the internet. But if you knew all the shit he’s out my parents and his ex through, you wouldn’t be calling me a narcissist. Opinions are NOT facts and he sits there and shit talks the woman who beared his children as if what he says ARE facts. He continuously lies to make himself seem like a victim to my parents. My mother has always sided with him on everything. Shit talks my parenting and I know I’m a damn good mother. But yes, speak on my “narcissism” when you know nothing. I posted this to vent.

@Hazel I did actually. And trust ? This family has anything but that 😂 my mother is both my brother and I’s biggest hater. Nobody trusts her. The reason my brother runs to talk shit with her is because they’re both hateful people. My mother’s own siblings can’t stand her because all she does is judge and talk shit but turn around and act like she’s better than everyone. There’s no bigger shit stirrer than my mother 😂