When did your sec drive return post partum? I am 9mo PP and still not that interested. I enjoy it once it gets going, dare I say it’s even better than before! But actually getting in the mood to have sex rarely happens. My husband is always trying to get me in the mood with doing chores around the house and giving me physical touch (my love language). But I still don’t get horny. I used to blame it on being tired and knowing that my daughter will wake up every couple hours so wanted to sleep while I could. But now she sleeps most the night and I’ve been getting rested again. But still would rather get the extra 20min sleep than have sex.