Ive been with my son’s father for 6 yrs. We recently hit a really rough patch and were separated. Thanksgiving weekend HE asked me if I wanted to make things work, I hesitantly said yes, even though I love this man with every bit of my, I said yes. So we agreed to work things out. 3wks after that I asked him a simple quest. So he had called out sick from work 3 days in a row and decided to go in for the twilight shift (he works over night) but didnt mention anything to me until I asked if he was going to work. I simply asked to be honest and if he was really going to work, he flipped and was all “I cant do this, etc etc etc” to which I responded that we had been a low contact (just about our son) for a while and getting back into the groove of things was awkward and we were in a very uncomfortable space. It was unfair because we didnt have a fair shot. He gave me the silent treatment for 2 days. Friday while out with his friend he text me and asked if I loved him and I said it didnt matter so why ask, to which he responds “because I love you but you’re not making it easy” which isnt true. Things got smoothed over and things settled.

I was having a conversation with my girls in the groupchat about how her guy lied for no reason, and I said “men lie unprovoked” and we laughed so I decided to post it on my ig story because its something relatable and a lot of women would understand. Few hrs later he text what men lie about and I said unnecessary things and that just spiraled out of control from there. It went from I use my ig like a preteen, subbing and stuff to him feeling like the post was about him and how he would be perceived by his friends because they’ll think the post was about him. Mind you all I post on my ig is my son and mom relatable things. A hit dog gon holler. It was all unnecessary, I explained to him how it got there and now is I want to be alone, find someone who is going to meet your needs blah blah blah. I honestly cant do this roller coaster shit anymore. I’m 5 months pregnant with our second child and its just been let down after let down. I love him to pieces but I think this was my final straw. Feels like he’s nit picking and I’m under a magnifying glass and at the first inconvenience he wants to quit. I’ll be stuck away from my family for the holidays in a house just me and my son because he’ll be out all weekend. We live together sleep in separate rooms