So back in May this year I met this woman at my daughter's daycare, she befriended me even though I wasn't looking for friends because I been unlucky in friendships in the past, I always gave way too much than I received in return. We were really getting along well but then I noticed something strange, we only hung out on her terms, and was never interested in the plans I made. So I wanted to confirm my assumptions, I started making plans with her and 2 times she cancelled at the last minute but before she did I was fully aware that she would not come with because she already made up excuses. She calls me to look after her kids when she wants to do something or wants to go out and I would jump sometimes was not planned even in advance, but when I call her she would often not answer her phone and tells me she will call me right back but never did. I had to pick up her kids from 3 different schools sometimes since she has 3 boys. (I only have a 4 year old daughter)

I really thought we were goodfriends but it seemed more like she only wanted to use me as her kids babysitter. She treated me differently whenever we were with other people. She would always interrupt me while speaking. Never listens to me and never values my opinion but wants me to listen to her all the time.

I recently decided that I no longer wanted to have this toxic friendship and she never reached out not even once. We both live in Germany but not from Germany (she is from America and I am from South Africa)