How can I respond gracefully to those asking if we are going to try again? I'm frustrated with family asking already and I don't really feel like it's anyone's business. I wanted to respond to my sister in law if your asking if I'm ever going to have sex with your brother again the answer is of course but you also don't need to be telling my kid to ask Santa for a baby this Christmas because he's not going to be able to get one recovery from a 2nd trimester miscarriage doesn't just happen overnight.