So my husband and I have been married almost 3 year and together almost 5. We have a 4 month old boy who is our absolute pride and joy. However the older he gets, the less we’ve been getting along. We don’t have sex. We argue. Constantly. And it’s always a damn argument that ends with “well I’m the man of the house. I’m the king so what I say, goes. I have final word. You just need to learn that and get over it.” Now mind you this has always been a joke argument. One that I get mad at but laugh at the same time. Not here lately. I don’t know what the hell has gotten into him but he’s been way more cocky and just dominant personality wise that I’m getting to where I can’t stand him most days. Like I just want to punch him in the face say fuck you and leave. But then I think I’m actually being disrespectful and selfish. Because I get to stay home and be with our son all day and he has to go work strenuous long hours all day in the cold or hot or rain or snow. He pays all the bills. I take care of our son and do what I can to keep up with the house. Now I have no issue taking on a “housewife” role. But if he’s going to continuously throw that shit in my face, I’m gonna lose it. On top of being overstimulated and anxiously depressed most days he does this shit. Like last night he stayed up till 3 am playing video games with his friends so tonight I wanted to stay a little longer and play more games at his parents and when we left he made it another argument of how I disrespected him. I’m just getting to the point where I’m feeling extremely overwhelmed and controlled in a way in this marriage. I’m happy a good majority of the time but when I’m sad.. I’m really f***ing sad. I just want to go back to sex and lust and love and deep conversation. While still loving my son more than anything.