Because a lot of these posts are about the bad/rough spots in relationships. I just want to tell everyone no relationship is perfect. Everyone has flaws. Maybe some couples don't have a lot in common. (Maybe find something new to have in common). I just want everyone to take a look from the outside. Imagine what your kids/parents might be seeing between you two or what you guy's can do to improve your quality of life. Even if this seems dumb sometimes the illusion of happiness is real happiness. Even if he or you had a hard day and can still smile anyway it might make them smile and eventually you won't need to force a smile anymore.(sometimes it's referred to as making compromises).

My parents have been together for over 25 years and my grandparents for over 50 years. Real love is achievable.