What should I have done?

Am I in the wrong here ladies?

Thursday night I had sex with my bf. On Friday, he slept over and wanted more but I was exhausted. On Saturday; I spent the whole day cleaning and organizing for the new year. I also made my boyfriends favorite dinner. He recently told me that he thinks I purposely make myself busy when he is around as an excuse to not hang with him. I do hang with him but I am also a mom and have responsibilities. Saturday after dinner, we had a drink and watched a movie. He ended up sleeping while I was awake. I woke up Sunday morning at 7:30 to cook New Years Dinner. From about 7 to 3. I was on my feet. Back killing me. He asked maybe once if I needed help but I declined because I clean as I go. After I finished I asked if he could take out the trash. He went to go sit back down, as he was doing for the whole time. Once in a while I wiuld try to cuddle but he would push me away. He then said that all he wanted was some “ cheeks” ( vagina) and I said ok ill take a shower. Exhausted and all. He then declined. So i said ok and went to lay down for 15 minutes before making food deliveries. I get up to finally leave and he decided he wants to WASH dishes now. I politely tell him its ok, I will wash them when I get back. He proceeds. I ask him if he can help me downstairs with the food and he tells me to put it into my wagon. I declined because one of the wheels on the wagon does not work and pulling it hurts my back. He continues to wash dishes so I walk out. This haopened around 5. He didnt talk or text me until this morning, ( yes, I thnked him for cleaning and texted him before him finally responding)

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Ba

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Sounds like you’re looking for more respect and reciprocation. Sounds like he’s looking for a lady to cook for him and then he can bang. I mean, if you’re happy with this relationship, proceed. But you’re well within your right to ask for more, expect more, and be given more thoughtful and considerate replies and actions. Can you communicate how that recent exchange with him made you feel, to him? I’d start there.