Would this bother you?

Ok so.. for one my cousin who I barely speak to. We don't text, call, she stays maybe 18mins from me and she doesn't come over like that.

I remember when my son was in the hospital she didn't say anything about it, or comment anything on my insta page.

But her daughter was having a bday and she told me a day before. Which I think is super short notice. Then idk correct me if I'm wrong but if ur inviting people aren't you supposed to pay for them?

But it was cool I didn't mind all of that.

But she wanted to do playmates with her and my daughter which I don't mind but it just feels weird bc it's like you don't call or text or try to form some type of relationship.

Also another thing that was weird was near the end.. no one told me everyone was leaving. When I came out the bathroom folks were headed to the door.

Was so odd.

Am I wrong in anyway? Just seems off to me.