I'm 32 almost 33, just looked at the annual report for glow and all my logs, I was diligent to log everything every day especially when it came to my sex life considering I'm trying to get pregnant as thats what my BF of 2 and a half years claims he wants is to have babies, let's face it I'm not getting any younger and I don't wanna be tired and worn down by my age my body already has a hard enough time. Long story short I am usually up for sex whenever. I have a pretty high drive and always have. Needless to say it was pretty disappointing seeing I only had sex with my partner 26x in a 6 month time frame averaging out to just 52 times in a year. I did a little research cause I've found myself wanting and needed more, did you know that the average person in between the ages of 30-39 have sex somewhere in the range of 80-89 times a year, yall my sex life compares to that of someone in their 50s, my boyfriend while claiming to want to have babies has such a low drive and blames his lack of sex on his meds, which I'm sure do have an effect, but he also exhibits signs of low T he talked to his doctor months ago about potential testing and when he was given the info to go get tested he sat on it. It's been probably at least 3 months and every time I bring it up it goes in one ear and right back out the other. He complains constantly that he has no drive he's tired he's stressed so on so forth. I'm pretty sure I've heard just about every single excuse to man at this point short of him not being sexually attracted to me. At this point I have no idea what to do or even say to him about any of this, cause even when he's given the tools to try to figure out what could be wrong he would rather not and just sit at home and play his video game. I love him but I don't know that I can continue with this relationship with him if there's no sex involved and the lack of trying is rather hard to get over.