Keeping Your Word

My husband goes to work at 4am during the week and midnight on the weekend.one day off a week.we have a 3 &1/2 month old son(first child).Anyway we have been trying to get back on track with our sexlife and not let life get in the way.When he got off of work at 1:30 pm today,we agreed that we would be intimate when I returned from out of town visiting my family.(they live40 minutes away and I bring my son to see them a few times a week)he’s aware that I would more than likely return home late as usual and that it was ok to wake him once I got back.I even called him while there to see if our plans were still on and he said yes.I make it home around 1:20 am.I nurse our son to sleep and put him in a separate room.I shower and get in bed with my husband.I gently wake him and he moans and groans and asks for the time.I asked him why he wanted to know and he says”because I don’t want to do it too close to the time I have to get up for work”.I immediately hop out of bed and storm out of the room.I feel like it’s unfair that he lead me on and okayed everything and turned his wife down once it came down to us being Intimate.I think most men would jump at the opportunity to have sex with their wife no matter the time.I feel hurt and very upset but mainly hurt.I’ve shut down.he told me all day that we would do it and waited until it was supposed to happen to turn me down.I just feel like it’s unfair,hurtful,and disrespectful.I’ve seriously just shut down.I told him he hurt my feelings and he had nothing to say.Idk what to do.Thoughts?opinions?share a similar story ?….soooo hurt right now.I just don’t even want to be intimate anymore.it’s never consistent