Just need to vent

My bf/bd thinks that his son, him and I are invincible. That nothing bad will ever happen. So that makes me have to be the protector and the one with some sense. For ex., we recently purchased a handgun and am getting a gun safe for it. He’s all like “omg that lil gun we don’t need no vault.” So basically it’s impossible for my 2 yr old to get ahold of a little gun. In his eyes.

He doesn’t want a door bell ring camera cause “oh nothing will happen that little door ring camera won’t catch nothing.” Ok.

I had to train him to make sure the doors are locked cause anyone can break in at anytime. He always believed that bc we live in a little town “ain’t nothing going to happen.”

I work security and ppl were acting extremely weird. Very sus. I’m texting him scared and he’s all like “oh they aren’t plotting on you stop overthinking.” Mind you I work alone night shift.

I want to be the one being protected sometimes so tired of being the one always on guard and protecting him and myself. 24/7. There’s been multiple times I was in a situation afraid of being followed in a store or something, and he just did not care, I had to call my mom.

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I always had to remind him not to keep our window OPEN at night cause our son could climb through or someone could climb through and take our son. My bd: “I wouldn’t let anything happen to him”. Mind you he’s a HEAVY sleeper. If someone came through our window he would not notice.