Would this be rude??

Question

My FWB will text me at 8 am
I work til 4 am at a local hospital 
I get home at 430 and sleep til 11 or noon 
Anyways my FWB expects me to up, ready and horny at a moments notice on HIS time
I’m debating on saying next time he texts 
My time is valuable and if I don’t have more of a notice to meet you it’s not going to happen. I can’t have you text me at 8 am and have you expect me to be ready on the spot, it’s not very respectful of my time.
Would this be rude to say??

Accepted Answer

I mean I personally think someone just using you for sex at any given moment and expecting you to be ready to go as soon as they call like you don't have a life is ridiculous and gross. He obviously has zero care or respect for you and only wants sex...that's not even a friend that's just a benefit to him.

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I wouldn't even bother explaining things. I'd just switch my phone to airplane mode for when I'm asleep / busy, and reply whenever it suits me 🤷 it's called friends with benefits, not friends with obligations!

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I mean, is that what he expects of you? Or is he just asking for a booty call? Asking for a booty call is not the same as expecting you to be ready when he wants you to be. I think telling him what time would be better for you would make more sense than telling him he's not respecting your time. ￼

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Well I mean he’s a fuck buddy. He just wants the sex. I would tell him to not expect anything from time a to time b. But you can’t be all upset that he texts asking if your ready for his cock and when you say no not yet he doesn’t reply all day. He’s not your man. He’s your fuck buddy. Most of the time those dudes don’t even want a buddy. Just the fuck.

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It wouldn’t be rude to say, but also someone who just wants you for sex probably isn’t gonna be the most respectful person

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Just tell him no, you need more time in advance than that.

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Meant to click NO. lol. It sounds like he’s just using you as his own personal on demand sex toy. 
Not cool. Dump him and run far away.

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He doesn't VALUE YOU or your TIME. You need to value yourself first! Good luck

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If you already explained this, or explained you time schedule, no use trying to be « not rude ». No matter if it is you BF, FWB or your best friend, if the person cannot put the effort of counting on their fingers and have the littlest amount of empathy is to be kicked away… seriously, are you his slave? Was he as careful with you as you are with him? FWB are very common and even if it’s particularly good, you can get another one.

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You don’t own him an explanation.
Just don’t answer, he just want sex and thats not more important than sleeping if you’re tired.

Would this be rude??

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