Sister told family and my friends not to help me when I'm ill. UPDATE 💜

I'm a single mum and I've been through alot in life.

I've always had ocd but it's always been a little amount and not changed anything in my day.

Last year I started to feel sick constantly due to ocd / anxiety and just worrying that something bad will happen. I was very confused and was slowly getting my head around what's happening, I needed my family and friends around me now more than ever!

I had plans to go pick some pumpkins with my sister and I'd been at work the day before , my sister text and rang straight after to tell me that she has messaged / contacted everyone in the family instructing them that under no circumstance should they help me ! She went on to say she understands and knows its hard ( she doesn't cause she doesn't have this condition ) and she went on to say that she is right and that she will only help when I call In tears having a breakdown and her response will be it isn't that bad.

My mental health professionals said what she did is wrong , so has my therapist

My parents have ignored my sisters request and she's caused a dig wedge in the family. The following day my other sister cancelled going go the pumpkin patch cause my older sister got to her and made her confused to if its a good idea seeing me . I was made to be felt like a freak.

My sister rang me constantly convincing herself that she's not a bad person , because I defended myself her response is : this isn't you talking it's your ocd talking " at that point I was done , let her ramble on with her BS and I've not spoke with either one of them ever since.

Just to put things into perspective :

My sisters never met me before they would arrange weeks advance to meet me but meet eachother randomly.

When I felt down and wanted my sister to come by for a chat and a cup of tea she refused.

My sister also went on to message my friend that I've known for over 5 years and I introduced him to her only like 2 years ago, she even told him not to help me and he defended me straight away so she said he's being a dickhead and never spoke with him since. She asked my friend to tell any of my friends that he knows not to help me either.

I generally don't want to speak to her again

What's your thoughts?

Fortunately my friends have stayed by my side and have helped being there for me and I've got alot better.

The reason my sister didn't want to help is because she read an article online and she even read it wrong too !!! She came to the conclusion that helping someone with ocd like with reassuring them or whatever it is they ask or seek help with actually would make them "worse". She went on to send me a photograph of the article and it even says to talk to your family member with ocd to work out how you can support them which she didn't do.

There's no definite answer as to why she doesn't want to help apart from the fact she's being a bad person , everyone who helped me she ended up cutting them out of her life .. she cut my parents off because they went to visit me and my son for some family time.