Am I wrong for getting angry?

Question

Me and my bf have been together for 8 years, we have a 6mo baby boy who we love more than anything, we’re also paying mortgage and we both have been having a rough time at work, specially him since they are firing people in his company. 
Well for the last 3 weeks he’s been going out every single day, like breakfast with this friend, lunch with the other friend and then he does his hours at work. I never know what time he’ll be home so I can’t make any plans for anything, not even a haircut, since I take care of baby after work. 
He says he likes to go out to clear his mind and likes to improvise while I need to make a plan for the week in advance. This has caused arguments constantly, I feel like a crack in our relationship. Am I being too controlling? Or is it normal to have this kind of adjustment after having a baby?

Answer

No, it's very common but there is nothing wrong with you being upset.
You're both parents. You both want to clear your head and it's selfish of him to expect always being able to and leaving you with the hard work.
He's a parent too. Nothing wrong with reminding him of that. It's not controlling. Then he can take the baby when he goes somewhere.

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It isnt ok. Youre a family unit with a household that needs to function with a child involved. That means both of you being a team and partners. A life partnership to me doesnt just mean you share bills and dont cheat on each other. It's acknowledging that my day and routine effects yours and therefore we figure things out together and have each others' backs. If he really needs to be away from home and away from you and your baby a lot in order to feel like he can cope, then something is wrong. Yes everyone should get some alone time, but it needs to be balanced, and you need that time as well. Maybe couples counseling can help.

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No I don't think you're wrong at all. It's both your responsibility to look after the baby and everyone not just him deserves a break. I would get up in the morning and go out before he does

Am I wrong for getting angry?

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