Does this mean he is not interested?
Went on a date with a really sweet man. He’s a very busy man, as he is a musician and has a full time job, and is very close to his family. So before we went on the date, his messages seemed very rushed and he just wanted to set up a date without asking any questions.
On the date, we had a great conversation and it was relaxed. No awkward silences. I’m not blown away with like butterflies or whatever but I’d like to see him again I think. However, he didn’t really ask me any questions about myself, unless I offered up that information. I would ask him questions, he would talk and talk a lot, and the only time he came up with a question was to say ‘what about you?’ He talked a lot about his life, his band, showed me pics of his new house etc
There were no specific questions about my job. Like a couple questions like where I grew up etc.
He texted me after the date to say ‘had a chill nice time, hope you got home safe.’ He’s really not a texter I get the vibe and I don’t know if this is a bad thing. He very much has his own life and with my ex, my ex had no hobbies and did nothing which I used to resent so maybe it will be good To date someone with his own things going on. He said as I live an 1.5 hours away but might be moving to his city for a new job soon (London), he won’t be in my area anytime soon but I should let him know how my interviews go and we can arrange a fun day out he said. I thought if a guy likes you he would want to arrange a second date very very soon
But I actually question if this man is actually interested. Maybe we could get to know each other on a friendly level first
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