So I just found out I was pregnant. I was excited, my boyfriend was excited. I am a college student in my last year, I’ve gotten nothing but support and love from my friends. My boyfriend is a small business owner and is in the carpenters union.

I just told my mom and she goes on this rant about how I have more things to accomplish and that she would feel sad for me. She also said I can’t handle it financially or at all. She kept harping on how this would ruin my career and basically my life.

Will having my baby ruin my life, career, etc.?