how to tell bf 😅 TMIIIII*****

ok so let me start by he’s not necessarily bad at sex... he just kinda doesn’t know what he’s doing. Last night we were doing the deed and he was trying some fore play on me and instead of rubbing the cl*t he was just rubbing the hole which literally doesn’t do.. anything... i didn’t have the heart to tell him. but i can’t keep going and not finishing i’m getting cranky😂😅 we’ve been together for a while and it used to be better in the beginning, but slowly he’s gotten lazy i guess idk? how do i tell him he’s doing it wrong without hurting his feelings?