Sexting troubles 🤷🏻‍♀️ advice/relate?

Anyone else here relate on some level?

I’m a stay at home mom, while the hubs is at work I think of things I wanna say but I’m never really sure how to get it started.. so I just never do..

He’s said before he likes a “lead up” or something to get his mind going so later he’s already in a “let’s go” state, either pictures or sexting. I don’t take pics of myself anymore cause I just don’t feel sexy cause of some weight gain so I wanna get my sexting game up somehow.

And then.. in the same breath.. I also kinda don’t wanna start the sexting sometimes because there are days where by the time he’s home, dinner, kids, homework, showers bedtime rolls around.. I’m too tired.. (stay at home mom who does deliver DoorDash and places like that as well as helping older family members) so I’m always worried I’ll let him down too after getting him All hot and bothered 😔

So questions are

1. Can you relate

2. How in the world do you start a sext anyway??

Used to do it when we first got together (11 years ago)but I’m a lil rusty 🤣

3. can you give me any advice period! Haha