Should I leave my friend alone or keep trying to text?

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My best friend of 10 years recently lost her position she was laid off.

I know what it feels like because I was laid off during the pandemic and I couldn’t find anything for a whole year.

She is really taking it hard .., we usually text everyday but I’ve noticed she doesn’t text much anymore. If I text her first she will respond like 2-6 hours later… I may be anxiously attached .

I’m trying to tell myself it’s not personal and she said she feels lost and unmotivated but something tells me this friendship is over.

I dont want to keep texting her over and over and I haven’t been lately. But I don’t wanna text her period if she’s acting weird. I know she’s depressed but when I was laid off I got over it very quickly. I understand we’re two different people but I’ve never seen her so depressed and down before.

I also realized when I was laid off she never gave me any advice to finding a job.

I’m trying to give her advice and now I’m thinking maybe I shouldn’t since she never helped me during the pandemic when I lost my job and she still had hers throughout the entire pandemic.

What should I do? I don’t want to keep texting her and getting dry ass responses. I know she’s going through alot I’ve tried everything but she’s just not acting herself.

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