First time having sex again.

I haven’t had sex in over three years now. I did meet someone. We both haven’t sex in a long time. I want it to be right when it does happen. I’m someone who only has sex in a relationship. I’m just afraid and excited for when it happens . I just get so attached when I do have sex. The guy who took my virginity I fell hard for him and he never loved me during our relationship and was very toxic. I just hope this turns into something with this guy. I’m very happy. I’ve been with a lot of the wrong guys. I’m also on the Nuvaring can the guy feel it when having sex ? Also will I feel it when I have sex? Thanks ladies 🩷