How would you feel? I told my friend not to tell her husband about a situation i was going through and she did…

I’m friendly with her husband and he’s watched me go through a toxic divorce. A situation happened with a guy that I was talking to where I felt physically unsafe. I was fine and blocked the guy after the fact. I told my friend about It and told her not to tell her husband because 1.) I didn’t want him to find the guy and say something to him 2.) her husband makes comments and judges all of my decision, I didn’t want the judgement…My friend said she told her husband anyway in case I was ever in an unsafe situation again and he would already be filled in. I understand she is worried about me but I specifically told her not to tell him. And now I have to worry about the judgement from him like “you talk to losers” etc. How would you feel?