Staying in the Moment

Alicia

I’ve never orgasmed with a partner before. I can do it on my own. After having partners try tirelessly to help me I’ve developed this pattern of thinking where I start to think about how maybe they’re getting tired, and worrying about if they’re enjoying it or not etc. I’m just having a hard time staying present and then achieving an orgasm is really not possible.

What helps keep others relaxed and in the moment?

Thank you!