Am i being over dramatic šŸ¤”?

me

So me and my ex split in January 2022…

I went through 9 years ttc with him, 3 years of fertility treatment, i out my body through ivf for him.

We miscarried our twins at 10 weeks.

After I lost the twins our relationship turned toxic!!! He blamed me for loosing the babies, he would beat me. He would argue and shout at me for the smallest things for instance asking if he could wash up any little thing I’d ask he would just tear into me.

I couldn’t do right from wrong.

I ended up leaving him as I just couldn’t mentally and physically takes it anymore.

He hated the fact I couldn’t fall pregnant and blamed me everyday for that.

For a whole year and a half he had been begging me back… even a week before he got himself his new girlfriend.

So fast forward to today.

He’s been with his new bird two months…. She’s now 5 weeks pregnant.

He posts on a WhatsApp stories to make sure I see there scan photos, pregnancy tests… he posted a scan photo and said ā€œ5 weeks and everything going good atmā€ā€¦: like for real.

He then posts today. He told me he couldn’t pay his debt last Friday because he had paid out 1200 but he had to mention that twice for me to ask what it was he bought…. But because I NEVER asked…. He posts a photo of it saying ā€œcan’t wait to push thisā€ a poxy pram with the 1200 quid price below šŸ˜‚

He also doesn’t post none of this on Facebook as I’ve had alook on a friends account who has him on there. So it proves that he posting it on WhatsApp stories to make sure I see it !

I’m trying to show my boyfriend it don’t bother me but it does. Not the fact he’s with someone else and moving on but more to the point I find it spiteful!!!

I went through ivf I put my body through hell and back for him. I’m also infertile and my ex was there to whiteness them tell me that.

I’m so better of without him but i just find it so disrespectful.