Am i being over dramatic š¤?
So me and my ex split in January 2022ā¦
I went through 9 years ttc with him, 3 years of fertility treatment, i out my body through ivf for him.
We miscarried our twins at 10 weeks.
After I lost the twins our relationship turned toxic!!! He blamed me for loosing the babies, he would beat me. He would argue and shout at me for the smallest things for instance asking if he could wash up any little thing Iād ask he would just tear into me.
I couldnāt do right from wrong.
I ended up leaving him as I just couldnāt mentally and physically takes it anymore.
He hated the fact I couldnāt fall pregnant and blamed me everyday for that.
For a whole year and a half he had been begging me back⦠even a week before he got himself his new girlfriend.
So fast forward to today.
Heās been with his new bird two monthsā¦. Sheās now 5 weeks pregnant.
He posts on a WhatsApp stories to make sure I see there scan photos, pregnancy tests⦠he posted a scan photo and said ā5 weeks and everything going good atmāā¦: like for real.
He then posts today. He told me he couldnāt pay his debt last Friday because he had paid out 1200 but he had to mention that twice for me to ask what it was he boughtā¦. But because I NEVER askedā¦. He posts a photo of it saying ācanāt wait to push thisā a poxy pram with the 1200 quid price below š
He also doesnāt post none of this on Facebook as Iāve had alook on a friends account who has him on there. So it proves that he posting it on WhatsApp stories to make sure I see it !
Iām trying to show my boyfriend it donāt bother me but it does. Not the fact heās with someone else and moving on but more to the point I find it spiteful!!!
I went through ivf I put my body through hell and back for him. Iām also infertile and my ex was there to whiteness them tell me that.
Iām so better of without him but i just find it so disrespectful.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.