Would it be ok to send him a message?
I had a match on a dating app and it was great easy conversation, a rarity. Until I went back into the app and saw he had disappeared and deleted the app
I was disappointed but moved on
2 weeks later, I saw that he had downloaded the app again. I messaged him ‘back so soon.’
He apologised that he went through a moment of madness and deleted the app and said he was pleased we could chat again
He asked for my number and we started chatting off the app. He was funny and sent me pictures, lots of questions, good morning messages etc, it was fun. He said he was excited to go for a drink. I really enjoyed chatting to him, and as I was moving to London ina few weeks time, I was excited to have a date planned and to meet someone new
Until 2 weeks in, he was texting as normal in the morning and then he went on a night out with his brother. At 4am I got a message ‘I’m so sorry, I have to come out of the dating scene as I’m really not over my ex and I need to heal. I’m sorry and I still have your number x’
It’s been 2 months and I’m still disappointed. I would have loved to meet him even as a friend.
Would it be ok now 2 months has passed to check in. I’m thinking of sending him ‘Heya Sam. How's everything going? I just wanted to reach out and say that I really enjoyed our previous chats. No pressure at all, I hope you don't mind me reaching out.
By the way, I've recently moved to London.”
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