Hard decision

So my husband and I are expecting our 3rd baby but he is not in favor of going forward. Not so much the baby but the situation. We don’t have a lot of help to keep the kids so outside of 3 family/friends its just us. He asked me if I ever thought about not having the baby (abortion) and I haven’t. I was also shocked that he would even think along those lines. For me I’m more annoyed and question if this was something that was a no go if it happened why not plan against getting pregnant in the first place? It could have been prevented. I just can’t see myself going through with this and don’t want it to become a blame game because he already talks as if it’s my fault that I’m pregnant not that he played a part in it too. He’s withheld intimacy from me before after the birth of our 2nd child saying he didn’t think I was ready and my body went through a lot and another time when upset with me. I asked him if he was nervous, he says no. It’s more so the finances and additional help. Valid points, however I see us being able to manage that. Plus I don’t think our whoops should result in aborting the baby. I mean this is a life we created.