Where can I find sexy, non-thong lingerie?

I just literally can't wear a thong. It's not physically possible, as it starts to hurt as the fabric rubs uncomfortably against my lady parts. I also get UTIs and yeast infections EXTREMELY easily due to hormonal imbalance, so tight underwear is a no-no. Anyway, while I love me some seamless granny panties, the fact is they aren't really that sexy. I would love to wear a sexy lingerie and I know my partner would enjoy it too, but I hate how most of them are usually thongs and I just can't wear them. So my question is for any sisters out there who struggle with the same thing: what type of lingerie can we wear? Where have you bought yours? What material is it? I have a couple of cute lace panties that have like a hipster shape to them and one is even crotchless, but so far such panties have been few and far between. Any tips?