Is this cheating ???

I am in a 2 year relationship with a guy everything about the relationship was perfect but one thing we both lacked was making time for sex

We could both go months without doing anything

We both have very little experience in the bedroom and we both have confidence issues and sex never was a top priority for us

We both talked briefly about how we should make time but we never did

Anyway the last few months he was acting strange with his phone I have been cheated on in the past so I started to get suspicious. I did ask him about it but he played it off like I was been  paranoid

Anyways he went to sleep one night and I did go through his phone yes I agree this was wrong of me to do this.

Anyways I found out he has been paying women via sex cams to perform acts.

I’m devastate my heart is broken ….. I did tell him what I do and he said he was using this because we weren’t having sex.

He explained he was signed up to onlyfans and other similar websites…. I just don’t know how to work through this