Last year I was with a guy that was in an open / long distance relationship (red flag one). And when I finally let him touch me I tried to set a boundary that I didn’t wanna do any kind of phone sex, but not even 20 minutes later he was asking when I’d wanna do it and started asking me to do it because “it would be fun”, eventually I gave in and did it with him. For the rest of the time I was with him he constantly asked and wouldn’t drop it when I said I was too tired or didn’t feel like it. He made me think I could say no but when I did he kept asking. One time we were alone and I felt like absolute crap, I was extremely dizzy and trying to not pass out, but he kept trying to get me to do stuff with him. We are no longer together but I was 14 he was 16. He also knew I was raped in the past