Cussing at spouse when mad or arguing

Do you or your spouse cuss at each other while mad or arguing with one another? Back story: My husband already cusses like a sailor and I am ok with that we both do. However when he is upset or we are arguing he will cuss at me and I dont like that. Example would be if I woke him up about something that was not important to him but was important to me he has yelled at me saying"leave me the f#&k alone". Its the tone and the use of profanity towards me that upsets me when I felt the question I had was important. Note: There is no name calling. What do you all think about this? Please note opions.