I hung up on my husband for the first time EVER

I hung up on my husband for the first time EVER tonight. I know it’s wrong and immature but I couldn’t keep talking to him because I was either going to explode or burst into tears

I was on my way home from work and some how we got on the topic of women working and I said that a reason why a lot of women (not all obviously) want to stay home these days is because they don’t get treated fairly in the work force anyway… whether it’s from not getting certain positions that they’re more than qualified for because they will give it to a man less qualified, or pay gaps, or just straight up being treated like shit by men….. obviously this doesn’t happen everywhere and to everywoman but it happens a lot in the work force and it’s something women have been trying to change for a long time!!!

My husband gets in moods where he tries to argue with me for absolutely no fucking reason… even if he doesn’t believe the words he’s saying he will argue with me just for the sake of arguing with me because he thinks it’s hilarious to get me all worked up and then say he was kidding

Well when I was on the phone with him he wouldn’t stop being ignorant and saying that pay gaps don’t exist and that women just need to work harder etc. and instead of asking for actual information on it which I would have said something like that there’s gender gap reports from world economic forums, u.s. bureau of labor statistics, institute for women’s policy research, etc. he just kept saying “says who??” And “you’re just going off of what people blabber in about on Facebook”…. I’ve legitimately NEVER gotten my information about ANYTHING off of facebook… like he was literally just gaslighting me for literally no reason whatsoever!!!!!

I told him he was sounding like his dad (who’s extremely ignorant, anti women, republican-but the awful kind like the conspiracy theorist kind, etc)…. He wasn’t acting like my husband at all and I have no idea why!!!!!

I literally told him I’m gonna go and he was silent and I just hung up because I was on the verge of tears because he was being so god damn mean and being such an asshole for NO REASON

I’m currently typing this in a parking lot because he’s going to the gym tonight and I don’t wanna see him when I get home from work if I’m being complicit honest because I haven’t cooled down yet