Do I or don't I?

My husband has been an as$ to say the least and after his comment tonight ("food you make is sh!%) I've absolutely had it. He makes me feel horrible about myself unless he wants something, constantly tells me i am controlling and nothing I do is good enough. And its not just my hormones talking because he was like this before i got pregnant. This is our 2nd and I'm really considering birthing alone this time. He wasn't much help when i was in labor with our son anyway. I dont have anyone else i would feel comfortable relying on during this. I really feel alone. What would you do? Have a Drs appointment tomorrow and may talk to her...