I don’t know what to do or how to feel.
My ex/ the father of my child reached out yesterday evening asking to start contact with his child again. It’s been 8 months of no contact since we broke up in March after he got me pregnant, abused me and then left me pregnant. A bit of background info, I lost the baby shortly after we split up, he refused to come to the funeral, refused to see our daughter, refused to admit the abuse he put me through (both mental, emotional and physical),refused to pay child support and has only just made his first payment this month. As I said he reached out apologised for leaving me pregnant and not paying sooner and is asking for supervised visits with our child.. I feel lost on what to do. This isn’t the first time he’s walked out on his child for months at a time and I don’t want to agree to supervised visits just for her to be letdown again..I also have no idea how I’m ment to feel comfortable being around him after all he put us through. I asked my daughter if she would want to see him if she could and her response was ‘if he’s sorry maybe we can be a family again’ and it broke my heart. We will never be a family again regardless as him and I will never be back together. What do I do? Do I agree to supervised visits? Do I ignore the message? I feel so unsure, emotional and angry! just reading his message threw me in to a panic attack 😭
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