Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 3 months but i’m starting to doubt how it’s going to work out. So for we seem to rely on my salary, even though the both of us work. I’m 20 and have two jobs, while he is 24 and have one. He works about 1-2 times a week while i work 3-6 times. I have money in my savings account and have enough for me to survive. He has nothing in his savings but wants to start saving, but his salary is too low. This far in our relationship i have been the only one to pay, I cannot remember one single time where he has paid for something. I always pay for takeout, dinner, groceries, drinks, etc. Although he has applied for different jobs with higher salary and more work hours, I can’t help but feel kind of dissatisfied about the situation and him. I know he wants to change this because I came along and now we’re two to take care of, but I don’t understand how he always lets me pay for stuff even though we both have a little money and I can’t help but feel like it’s a bit unattractive. Another thing is that he doesn’t own his own place. He either sleeps at his parents house or crashes at his friends couch. We have talked about him getting a better job and saving money to buy an apartment, but again, it feels unattractive at the moment. Im not planning on leaving him, but it’s something that have bothered me about him and us. Am I wrong for this? Am I shallow?