I’m n abuser ig

Okay. I’m pretty sure I get super judged on this app, for what idk. I go thru hell on an everyday basis. My reactions seem a bit reasonable tbh for the situation I am in. There’s no way for me to explain everything at once. It won’t happen. What I can tell y’all is this is a super toxic relationship. He don’t want to let me go. I’m ready to be done. Mentally, and emotionally I know the relationship is hit. I have to force this guy to parent. Me being with him, only encourages his behavior. I am a single mother. I take care of my child day or night. I am there for him. Now his dad can’t say the same. I’ll tell y’all what he didn’t do like Carly Pearce did in her top song. First of all he don’t treat me right. He claims to be “trying” but I don’t see anything. He’s trying a bit too late, it’s almost been 3 years. There’s no changing my mind about him, ever.

For y’all saying I invaded his privacy? How? Never looked at his phone. Mind you I guess I failed to mention the last time he has broke 2 of my phones for not showing him my phone. Do you guys know what a hypocrite is? If the guy had nothing to hide, he wouldn’t have an issue flipping his phone around. I’m not going to be treated differently than anyone else. And yeah, with a liar, you have to change the story a bit to GET the truth. And no, im not staying for whatever y’all accused me of. I’m staying because I have no place else to go. It’s hard to give advice when you don’t know the whole story. But to come on my post and say I’m abusive? I’m not the abuser. He’s the abuser. What I experience is “REACTIVE ABUSE” it’s that simple. If I didn’t have any abuse to react too then why would I be abusive? How? I’m not going to let someone do that in front of me. He can grow a pair of balls, take his ass to court and get some rights. That’s what he can do. Take some accountability for his child. The child is his too and he can step up. I do not care what anyone says. A father should be in the child’s life, if alive and well.