Is my best friend right?

My best friend says the guy I’m talking to is leading me on and treating me as property, not even a friend, at bare minimum.

Here are his reasons:

* He doesn’t want me dressing “too revealing”, (literally like shorts that are too shorts or I wear just a long shirt), me posted dressing too revealing, says it should be just for him, and told me he would end up hating me if I decided to anyways.

*But then he sent a video to another girl of him in boxers and said it’s “different”. Told me that if I tried to talk to him about it anymore, he’d be mad.

* He tells me that I post things for “attention”

* At one point he was telling me he didn’t feel like I showering good enough at home and told me to get used to showering at his house. (Then weirdly never brought it up again??)

* He’s annoyed by all all of my friendships and said he gets jealous/territorial over me. But he’s friends with his ex and his friend’s fuck buddy

* My best friend is a gay male and I even hinted he was gay (with my best friend’s permission) but he’s still really jealous of him and said I should date him.

* He tried to ruin one of my work friendships by manipulating a situation to make her hate me

* Doesn’t want me dating or sleeping w anyone else, or to even want to

* If I ignore him, he’ll double and triple text a couple hours after. Or sometimes say I should be able to answer in a time frame (even if I’m working) after

* BUT when I told him I liked him, literally the other day, he said he doesn’t feel the same and even seems confused as to why I thought anything would happen romantically. But then after, started doing all this nice stuff and wanting more of my attention??

I feel like he’s just messing with me now. I feel so stupid.