Did I cum?

Question

I know this sounds stupid but hear me out.
So, I masturbate w a vibrator often. Usually I do it to feel good for a bit and then stop, as I never reach a climax really. However this time, I was sexting and I was REALLY into it, more than ever. 
All of a sudden, I start to feel this liquid come out of me. It wasn’t like “oh I’m gonna cum!!!” It just rushed out. Afterwards, I felt a bit shaky and sooo euphoric (not usually the case). However, my bed wasn’t too wet or anything crazy as to give proof that I came. I’m just confused as I don’t normally seem to cum and I seem to have trouble climaxing, so I’m kinda doubting it naturally but can this be what it feels/looks like to cum?

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The term “cum” for a woman is a slang term from orgasm, or climax, as you described it. There are a number of fluids that a woman can release during sexual stimulation and orgasm, but that is not required for an orgasm. Some women release fluid during arousal, or penetration, or orgasm, or somewhere in between.
An orgasm is the release of tension and stress that built up in your body during stimulation. This happens in waves of contractions and pleasure starting at your clitoris or uterus and rippling outwards This last several seconds and may be accompanied by heat generated in your uterus and spreading outwards. After an orgasm you should feel relaxed, satisfies, healthy, and happy. You may feel glowing and/or sleepy.
Of course, orgasms can differ in intensity from a slight ripple to a massive earthquake. Every woman is able and entitled to orgasms. If you do not orgasm, it means that you just did not discover the way your body likes to be stimulated or the mindset to allow you to just give over to the sensations and orgasm.
I see from your history that you were raped by a date. If you did not get help to process this traumatic event, it will affect you. You may not think so, but it does. Very few women and men can deal with rape without getting help to process it, Leaving it unresolved can lead to intimacy issues, hypo-sexuality, or hyper-sexuality, and arousal/orgasm issues without you even knowing what caused the issues..
With that out of the way, let’s talk about how a woman reaches orgasm. You do not say if you use an internal vibrator or a clitoral vibrator. Your primary pleasure organ is your clitoris, not your vagina. Your vagina is mostly there for making and delivering babies. It is not very sensitive, except around the opening. Your clitoris on the other hand is blessed with over 10,000 nerve endings, making it the most sensitive organ anywhere in the human body. It is a lot like a male penis and is formed from the same tissue. You do not pee or ejaculate through your clitoris, and while the penis is largely outside a man’s body, the biggest part of your clitoris is inside your body in two wishbone like structures called the bulbs and the legs.
So most of your actions should be concentrated on or around your clitoris, and a bit around your vaginal opening and your inner lips. However, some women like to feel that filled up feeling and have their vagina contract against something when they orgasm. So putting something inside your vagina while you masturbate around your clitoris can help you improve your orgasms.
There must be at least a thousand different ways you can stimulate your clitoris. You have to experiment and figure it out yourself. It is also unusual to use just one way. It is more typical to start with more indirect stimulation and move closer and harder on your clitoris as you get closer and closer to orgasm. 
What are some of the fluids around your vulva during sexual activity? Arousal fluid is squeezed out of the cells in your vaginal lining as you get aroused and engorged. Cervical mucus is what you see most days in your panties. Two glands, the Bartholin’s glands around your vaginal opening secretes a fluid similar to pre-cum in a man. In a man these are called the Cowper’s glands. Around your urethral opening (pee hole) and internally around your urethra, you will find the paraurethral (or Skene’s) glands. These are also called the female prostate, and it is the equivalent to the male protate gland. The fluid owing from it is similar to male semen (without sperm of course). This fluid is called female ejaculate. Lastly there is the bladder which is responsible for urine that is also called squirting when it happens during sexual activities.
I hoe this helps explain things a bit better.

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