Deal breaker?

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Been talking to this guy I like him he likes me! I HAVE NOTICED NOT ONCE BUT TWICE HE HAS SEEN ME EATING AND SAYS “don’t get fat” and it bothers me a lot. At first I laughed at it. Because of course I’m not going to get “fat” but then he said it again when I had 3 string cheese and a fruit up! I GOT VERY PISSED because 1. I HAVENT ATE ALL DAY! And 2. I’m kinda already struggling with my image after my baby and being 8 months post partum plus not at the weight where I want to be. I got upset and silent. But finally expressed it to him because he kept asking what is wrong! He did say “my bad” and are we cool I said yeah. But idk how I should feel????

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Um, what? 🚩 If he’s that comfortable saying that, that early, what’s he going to be saying together if you make it to a year +? That’s not even funny. I’d say good riddance and find a real man.

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He's telling you he's a massive asshole. Believe people when they tell you who they are v

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I wouldn’t pursue a relationship with someone who thought that was appropriate or amusing.

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I wouldn't like that either.

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Oh fuck that!! The guy would be a no for me.

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Can’t imagine a dude saying that to me. And so early in the relationship? I’d say he’s not a keeper

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Ya that would be a turnoff and I would lose interest in someone real quick making comments like that.

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Don’t stay with someone who is already trying to tell you what to do with your body. What happens if you get into a long term relationship with him, you have kids and he’ll make you feel like shit for gaining weight. You get older and he makes you feel like shit for getting older. Don’t waste your time, he’s not worth it

Deal breaker?

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