Am I wrong for feeling upset about this?

Very long story short, i got sexually assaulted at work after moving home from an abusive relationship. The manager on shift did nothing when I told her and found out so he became aggressive. After, I continued to be harassed by multiple men. My nervous system has never been the same so men flirting with me always puts my brain into fight or flight mode.

My talking stage knows of these things bc I have talked about them and we were friends around the time. Last night, a dude in friends with on FB tried to hit on me. But I didn’t realize how creepy he was because he started out just being nice. So I was polite and said thank you. But then he got weird fast and I just stopped answering. The guy I like said to try to tell him I was talking to someone. So I did but it didn’t work. So he said to ignore him. So I did. But then this morning, I woke up to a TikTok he sent me. It was basically talking shit aboht how women “don’t want to block men for attention”. At first he played it off like “you’re not the only one” like it was a support thing. But then when I realized what it was actually saying, he told me that he feels like I do it for attention and explained how it’s easy for him to avoid people so it should be easy for me too. I tried to explain and he was like “well yeah but” and then started saying something about “if i let it go on too long”. But I literally stopped answering 3 messages in?

I’ve seen little red flags that he is mentally abusive so this makes me nervous. For example, he also says my Snapchat stories are “for attention” too and he’ll pressure me to delete them