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My husband and I have three kids 14,10,5. We have been on the fence about #4. Some life changes would have to happen, but are possible. We’ve talked with our oldest to hear her opinion on age gaps and overall feelings and she has stated that she doesn’t care about the age gap and that she would be happy either way. My husband is very calculated and wonders if we should just be done and enjoy our kids in this current phase without adding another, but I can’t stop thinking about a baby. Will I get over this? Is there something wrong with me? My husband is also up in the air but more leaning towards sticking with three. We are 33&34 Any insight in regards to starting over, age gaps, 3 vs 4, urge to have another would be greatly appreciated…

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