Bf is too comfortable ?

Hi y’all my name is Desirey and this is my first time writing on this platform but I had a question for all the women that already have husbands and or have bfs and I just wanna know what y’all think, please be respectful. So I been with my bf for a while now 2 years and couple months and lately I been wanting to get married so I can build a new life get my residency and get a better paying job, he knows how hard and difficult it is for me to have this job bc they are either rude or don’t ever respect peoples hours, but I have no choice but to stay.. I make an average of about 1,000 every two weeks if I’m trying working as many hours as I can it would only allow me to make 1,200 the most so it’s not good especially in this economy. My bf loves soccer and has a job at Amazon but they haven’t been giving him his hours so sometimes he does DoorDash on the side but I feel like he puts his time and effort into soccer like the other day he was supposed to work but they didn’t schedule him so he went to play soccer instead of door dashing on the busiest hours and that affected him bc he’s not gonna have any money for gas or anything. And while I’m at my shitty job taking crap from people he’s out playing soccer and wants to DoorDash when it’s not even busy. Lately he’s been asking me for money here and there but it’s been often .. I did express like 1 week ago that I didn’t want him asking me for money cuz I barely make shit so if he wants me to give him money all the damn time he can Atleast help me with my residency so I can get a better paying job… I’m literally the most giving person but not when people are starting to take advantage and I felt like that’s what he was doing if you look at my Zelle you can see all the money I’ve sent to him which you have to keep and keep scrolling to get to the bottom that’s how often I send him money. Then one day I was curious to see how much money HE has sent ME and yall I kid you not he’s only sent money 3 times and all 3 of them being below $20 😫😫😫. Like HOW DO I HAVE THE SHITTY JOB and have to give YOU the little bit of money I make ??? Like I’ve argued with him about this and he stopped asking me for money then todayyyy this morning he asked me for $10 but when I got home from work at 3:30am he asked me at 5am when he was going to work if he can borrow $10 and I say yes obviously and I’m pretty sure he took $20 bc I had 40 something in tips which I was saving to buy him a wallet for Christmas, my grandpa died 2 weeks ago so I had to go to Cali for his funeral and I was there for a week which messed with my check bc I wasn’t able to work. Not being able to work for the week made it bad bc the check I got it was super low not enough to last 2 weeks I’m literally on my last $100 till the upcoming Friday and mind you my birthday is tomorrow Christmas eve so that’s another thing how are you gonna ask me for money on my birthday week. The reason why I’m so negative towards giving this man money is bc hes 25 and also I’ve already dealt with broke guys, my ex that I was with for 3 years would do the same thing ask me for money but never give me any and I vowed to myself that i wouldn’t let another man get that comfortable to the point where he’s asking me for money daily… the guy that I’m with has cheated multiple times but he has a great personality and we been able to get past all that but I don’t know what do yall think. Should I leave him or should I hold him down bc he’s also most likely leaving for military boot camp in these up coming months . Idk also his family are a bunch of dick heads too so I don’t talk to them and his friends are weirdos too.