5 days out and still in horrible pain- Anal related.

I made a post not long ago about my husband and I being intimate and how he accidentally shoved it where the sun don’t shine… 😂 it was genuinely an accident to go that fast in, so don’t be harsh please! We was meant to do anal anyways just not that fast of an entrance.

Anyways I’m still in an incredible amount of pain! 🥹 I am so constipated it’s unreal. Like I feel like I have to go but can’t. I’m 5 days post the trauma. I feel better than the first 3 days, but not the 100 yet! I did end up inserting a finger to feel around because it literally felt like I had a rock in there! I felt a deep cut (it burned so bad when I touched it) and now I have a bubble which I assume is a hemorrhoid? (I’ve never had one before) I haven’t been to the doctor yet, but plan to Monday if she’s in the office.

This is so bad that my vaginal area is swollen from all the pressure in my anus. I’ve already taking a whole box of laxatives (chocolate) to try to go and got NOTHING! I’m scared to do an enema due to the tear, and the hemorrhoid. Any suggestions until I can get seen?