Does anyone else have this issue masturbating

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Whenever I try to use my vibrator, my body will shake uncontrollably, and my hand will unintentionally like jolt away, and this kind of stops me from achieving an orgasm. I’ve tried many different kinds of vibrators, and I always use the low settings. I am wondering is anyone else has this problem or knows what this is￼/how to fix it? whenever i try to look online it’s always talking about shaking after using a vibrator and that’s not my issue lol

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hi! so you could try positioning the vibrator a different way. all clits are different so idk if this will apply to you but when i stimulate my actual clit (like the little bead) it's to much for me and i have to stimulate a different spot. so try putting the vibrator a bit more upward or like to the side.

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This happens to me too! Whether my boyfriend is doing it for me or I am, if it’s directly on my clit, I can’t handle that much sensation. It’s almost to the point where it’s not pleasurable because it’s so sensitive. I have to make sure I put my toy or my fingers on my clitoral hood and not my clit directly. He doesn’t necessarily understand it, it’s hard to explain to partners because they think it’s just super pleasurable and that’s why I’m shaking and moving away lmao. On your own though, if you want to try to ride out that big pleasure wave lol, depending on what your toy is, try placing it between your lips and keep your legs closed around it. That way it’s not your hand jumping away. I’ve personally never been able to ride my big wave when it’s directly on my clit, but maybe you can!

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Any luck fixing the “issue”?

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Mellow out before hand. Take a bath or smoke some weed. That helps me

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What Vibratoris good for women who have never used one before

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You must be very sensitive on your lady parts, bc like you mentioned when you looked it up they only said something about doing that after they’ve O. But it usually means your sensitive have you tried just doing it by penetration instead of vibrating on the outside maybe that will help. Or get a vibrator that stays without you having to hold it & just do your best to not touch it. I’m also a woman & to me it sounds like you may be on the verge of squirting from how sensitive you are I might be wrong though.

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