Please help me. First of all, I’d like to say that I’m not against drinking because I drink my self when I go out or at family parties. My dad also drinks beer on the weekends as a way to relax. So I really don’t know when is it considered alcoholism.

My bf and I have had a bumpy relationship. We have good days but then he just explodes in anger. Anything triggers him really! We are good for a week max then he gets mad for a day or two. It’s really dumb. If he has a bad day at work, he lets it out on me. If he argues with his parents he lets it out on me. It’s gotten to the point where I try to tell him something and he tells me “shut the fuck up bitch” the next day he apologizes saying he’s in a bad mood.

So it’s been 3 weekends already that I catch him buying little vodka shots from a liquor.

First time around I hung out with him at 1pm and I smelled the alcohol. I was grossed out and I asked him why he’s been drinking so early. When I went in his car I saw those 2 little bottles.

Second time, we went out for breakfast and we stopped by a liquor store at 11am!! Again he bought those 2 vodka shots

Thursday time around, we went out for lunch and before we ate, he had to stop by a liqour store. he does not get drunk so im not sure if this type of drinking is normal. he says it just relaxes him

another thing hes been wanting a child and i said i wont get pregnant until hes more responsible with his drinking habit. he told me he can drive cause jts just 2 shots…..idk what to think of all this

So just yesterday he sent me a pic and for some reason it was gone on my end. I asked what picture he send cause it was gone on my end. He send me a screenshot and he acts agressive. I don’t understand why he’s mad. I know when he’s mad. He texted me this morning saying he’s just been under many stress but at what point is he going to let his stress affect me