I have been dating a guy for four months and last night we had sex and I stupidly ask who is the best sex you’ve ever had?

He thought about it for five seconds, and started telling me about some woman he had sex with one time, and how wild it was, and how she knocked his socks off in bed

Of course, this hurt my feelings because I thought he was gonna say me

So I said, well, can I at least be number three??

He said, of course, and by the way, you’re the best cuddler

Obviously, my feelings are hurt, and all of my friends are telling me I shouldn’t worry or be upset about this. I only had one friend who told me that he was being disrespectful and should not have told me about another woman. And when I asked, can I be three she feels that he should’ve said your number one but he didn’t say that which says a lot and she also said his actions speak louder than words because in text message he was telling me I knock his socks off and I am wonderful and he loves the sex we have and he loves that I dirty talk.. my one friend said if that is truly how he felt. Why didn’t he say that to you to your face when you asked?? Why did he bring up another woman?

But I’m thinking my other friends were right that this is something I shouldn’t have to be upset about

Would you be upset?